Today I’d like to tell you the reason why and to do so I’ll borrow Cristina Tebar’s words from www.montessoriencasa.com. If you’re interested, you can read her post: Imaginación y Fantasia en Montessori (also in Spanish).
And here’s a quick summary for you:
- Imagination and fantasy are not the same thing: imagination comes from the mind of the child; fantasy comes from the outside world.
- Montessori is not against fantasy, it actually encourages it from when the child is 5-6 yo
- Before 5-6 years old, the child's mind is not prepared for abstract thinking, so he can't differentiate fantasy from reality.
- After 5-6 years old, the child's mind start thinking abstractly so it can process fantasy stories.
- We adults want to expose them to fantasy because we like it ourselves, but they don't need it.
- We adults think it's better to introduce fantasy stories when children are young so they'll still believe them, but it's quite the opposite: it's better to introduce them when their mind ir ready for abstract thinking (5-6 years old).
- Ways to encourage imagination, and limit fantasy before 5-6 yo: realistic books, images, paintings, clothing, toys; talk about the real world; answer their questions honestly.